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Farewell to the revolving door funeral in Stroud

Stroud funerals are becoming more intimate and more personal as friends and family take their time to say farewell. Farewell the quick 20 minutes at the crem. Here at Matara, a coffin rests in a quiet room while people can pay their last respects.  Surely this is part...

Beautiful Stroud funeral venue

The Quaker 'Friends' Meeting House' on Chestnut Hill in Nailsworth near Stroud most graciously allowed a family to hold their funeral there last week. There are not many places for a Stroud funeral as peaceful, as beautiful, nor as sweetly hosted as this ancient...

How to say Farewell well

There are many ways - here is one, at the beautiful Matara Centre, Kingscote Park, near Nailsworth, Gloucestershire. The coffin was brought into a side room, where friends and family could sit with their beloved father/friend/colleague, and write a message on a ribbon...

The source of the ‘death taboo’

The source of the ‘death taboo’

  How did Britain change so drastically from a nation obsessed with death and funeral etiquette to one – until recently - so averse to any mention of the topic?  Firstly, Queen Victoria died, in 1901. Then came the War; thousands of young men swept in great waves...

Victorian Values

Victorian Values

  It has been said that a culture is either obsessed with sex or with death.   For the Victorians, it was death. Death in Victorian British culture was ever-present; elaborate death rituals sustained the living, and set the tone for a whole way of life....

Keeping the body at home

If you are with someone who is dying at the very end of their life, experience has shown that it can be helpful to encourage the person to let go, reassuring them that they are doing the right things and so ease their passing. It is said that hearing is the last of...

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